Growing a Family

Summer fun.

2011-07-19T20:32:00.000-07:00

My happy girl!

We're going to sleep where???

My Campers

Jack in the water!

I have to say summer has been a blast. We've been swimming, bike riding, camping in the back yard, movie watching, fire fly catching, and so much more. Here's a few pix.

Jack's birthday!

2011-07-19T20:23:00.001-07:00

Jack and Eli our neighbor

Jack with his Uncle Ian

Jack blowing out the candles on his mickey cake

We had a great day for Jack's birthday! It was a beautiful day for a swimming party. He loved having his Mickey cake and all of his awesome Mickey presents!

I cannot believe that Jack is 4. Time has flow bye. He is an amazing kid. He's full of life and energy. I think about the day we got him and cannot believe how far he has come. He is my little dare devil and my drama king. He can almost swim and is very coordinated. They love him in tumbling class. He is speaking well and is a really likable kid. He is also the most dramatic child ever. I'm pretty sure he got all of Ethan's drama. Unlike Ethan he would ham it up on stage!

Ethan's Graduation

2011-07-19T20:18:00.000-07:00

That's right Ethan has graduated from Kindergarten. The kids put on a little show and then received their diplomas. Ethan was so stage fright he just stood there the whole time. He did manage to say his lines in the poem, and go up for the diploma. Let's just say acting is NOT in his future :)

Ethan's birthday!

2011-07-19T20:06:00.001-07:00

Ethan turned 6 May 14th, and we had his birthday at Entertrainment Junction. He had neighbor's, friends, and family at his party. Ethan had a great day.

I have to say I cannot believe my little boy is 6. He has grown into such a sweet little boy. He could not be a better big brother, and is the most Christian child I know. We love watching him grow up. His favorite foods are hot dogs and Chinese chicken with red sauce. He also loves cake and ice cream. He loves to fish, bowl, and play on the computer. He's really into Transformers and Power Rangers. We love watching Ethan practice his Power Ranger moves :)

At 6 Ethan can now read. It has been fun watching him learn! He is amazing at math and loved Kindergarten. He is very close to swimming. He can cast a fishing line and bowls pretty well too. He had a great time running track and he played T-ball. It's been a good year for Ethan.

Umm catching up...a lot

2011-07-19T20:00:00.001-07:00

So, what I've learned is having 4 kids under 6 will make you behind on well about everything! I've also learned that that's okay, cuz I'd rather spend the time having fun with them. In the next several blogs I'll attempt to catch up on my blogs. Why do I have time now you ask? Because my kids are at grandma's and Papa's this week!!! Yay!!! What are we doing? Everything we're behind on: Cleaning, laundry, car rust, pictures, fixing lawn mowers, yard work ect. ect. Of course dinners out for us :) It's been a great week so far, and the kids are having fun. The grand parents, well they might be exhausted. God bless the grandparents. This is better than vacation. It's a staycation with no kids.

Breakfast on Easter

2011-05-02T19:30:00.000-07:00

Yep, there it is...What? There's protein and dairy???

So we tried to have the kids eat some healthy food Easter morning, well we didn't try too hard...After all even I wanted candy for breakfast. We did manage some hard boiled eggs.

More Easter

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Reagan enjoying her basket of bibs :)

My not so early bird, but enjoying the egg hunt

My 3 early birds!

Happy 1st Easter Reagan!

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Look at that outfit!

She's so happy in her tutu

So I'm only a week or so late! Not bad .... We had an excellent Easter. We all went to church, and the children were very well behaved. Then we had an Easter egg hunt at church. After that we went to Eric's mom's for lunch and some more Easter fun! We now have enough candy to last us until Halloween.

Reagan Updates

2011-04-23T19:51:00.000-07:00

The motivator for all of my children for both crawling and talking. She is an awesome cat :)

There's my little sitter.

There she is, ready to move...backwards.

Reagan just had her 6 month well check. She is 15lbs 2 oz, and almost 25 inches. She is at the 10% in height, and the 10-25% in weight. Yah, she's small just like all my kids, but nice and round :)

She is now sitting on her own, and is starting to scooch around a bit. She's real good at sliding backwards. I keep finding her under my dresser! She is always happy, unless she is tired or hungry. Her brothers still adore her, especially Cam. He is amazing with "Baby Reagan" as he calls her. He insists on being the first one she sees each morning. It is really cute.

I have to say I have had so much fun having this baby around. I did not expect another baby, and I have looked at her as a bonus. I'm so much more relaxed with her and have had a blast! I also have to say having a girl is so much fun!

Our Track Star

2011-04-23T19:42:00.000-07:00

Ethan with his ribbons from the Track Meet

Ethan is the one with the hood on and grey shirt. He's running the 75m

Ethan recently joined track at his school. They actually have a team for K-8th grade. It has been really wonderful for him. I have to say watching the meets is so funny. The first meet a little girl ran zig-zag through all the lanes, and another one stopped half way through and said, "this is too long", then another one waved to her mom half way through the race. I laughed for 3 hours! Although Ethan doesn't place super high, he does a great job running and he follows the rules. Most important he LOVES it!

Other March happenings.

2011-04-23T19:30:00.001-07:00

What to do on one of our many rainy days...have a floor picnic

Or cuddle with 2 very cute boys.

Okay, so they might look a little alike. I wish the yellow squash on Reagan's face showed up more!

When its nice, play in the dirt with the neighbors!

Just a few pictures to enjoy.

Jack's Gotcha Day

2011-04-23T19:17:00.000-07:00

Our new red couch photo! These are some of the kids adopted with Jack.

My cutie. Two years after being home. Isn't he amazing.

Every year around Jack's gotcha day we gather with our China family. This year we gathered in Indiana where we had a blast at a park and then on to an arcade. We always have such an amazing time with this group of people. There's a connection there that is so strong. We feel so incredibly blessed to be a part of this travel group. Everyone is amazing. The adults, the kids adopted with Jack, and all of their siblings. Can't wait to meet up again!

About Jack. I still am so amazed by the progress he has made. When we got him he was 30 inches and 16lbs. He could not walk well, he uttered no words, had not eaten solid foods, had a hole in his mouth, and wore a size 3 shoe! Now he is 28lbs, 37 inches, wears a size 7 shoe, has amazing gross motor skills, has tested out of speech, and has more drama and personality than any of us could ever imagine! Not to mention the incredible amounts of food he still consumes! So amazing!

Happy Gotcha Day Baby!!!

Umm, a bit of catching up!

2011-04-23T19:01:00.000-07:00

Green pancakes with shamrocks on them.

My little Irish Cutie!

SO Happy St. Patrick's Day about a month late :) We've been a little busy around here, but I didn't want you to think we completely left! Everything is going well. I'm just trying my best to have fun with all the little ones. Not much free time, but that's okay because these days already fly by so fast! I cannot believe it is already the end of April!

Naked Baby Pictures

2011-02-27T19:03:00.000-08:00

Cutest bottom around!

Insert foot in mouth.

Okay I couldn't resist. Who doesn't love a naked baby :) Reagan's 4 month stats are : 13 lbs, 3 oz. 24 inches long. She is at the 25-50% in both. She

is now beginning to eat foods. She likes barley cereal, sweet potatoes and carrots. We get to start some fruit this week!

Happy Valentine's Day!

2011-02-27T18:51:00.000-08:00

Reagan liked hers too!

Happy Valentines!

My cuties on their pillow pets

So for Valentines this year we had a special hunt planned for the kids. They followed a trail of heart candies to their prize. Their prize was pillow pets, and they were a huge hit :) We also had pink hear shaped pancakes for breakfast, and a heart shaped pizza for dinner. It really was a fun day.

Everyone's birthday

2011-02-27T18:46:00.000-08:00

In China it is a tradition to celebrate every one's birthday 7 days after the New Year. We thought we would do just that. We even found a bright cake like the ones in China (manager's special no less). I can't imagine why :) We sang happy birthday to everyone and blew out the candle. The kids had lots of fun with it!

House of Yick

2011-02-27T18:42:00.000-08:00

So everyone in our house looked like this for the first 2 weeks of February. We had colds, coughs, stomach stuff, ear infections. You name it! Good times, good times. Luckily everyone is better now. I hope it stays that way.

Happy 4 months Reagan!

2011-02-06T10:44:00.001-08:00

Reagan's first bite of food.

Daddy with sleeping baby

Cam's favorite sister.

I get food "yay"

I cannot believe Reagan is 4 months old. Time is flying! She is doing just great. She can roll from front to back and back to front. She pushes up on her arms, she smiles and laughs, she sits with support, and babbles. She is waking up once during the night to eat, and takes one long nap and one short nap during the day. On the Chinese New Year she had her first bites of food. Rice cereal, which we deemed very appropriate for the day. She wasn't so sure about it at first, but she got the hang of it after a few tries.

Chinese New Year

2011-02-06T10:35:00.001-08:00

This year we had a fun family Chinese New Year! We started the morning with breakfast rabbits because it is the year of the rabbit. Later in the day we gave the children envelopes to decorate in red (for luck). They then had a coin hunt to fill their envelopes. Usually in China children are given red envelopes with coins to mean good fortune. After that we had Chinese for dinner and decorated Almond cookies for dessert. We had noodles for longevity and dumplings for wealth. We capped the night of with party blowers, chocolate coins, and glow sticks. It really was fun. Unfortunately Jack was still a bit under the weather.

Fabulous February!

2011-02-06T10:20:00.001-08:00

Us eating groundhogs by candle light.

These are our groundhog heads (donut holes) popping out of there holes (donuts)

We made groundhog masks.

Ethan had his hundredth day of School. This was breakfast, and the pretzel and cookies were snack.

So truth be told I hate the month of February. I always say it's the longest short month ever. I'm ready for spring, but clearly it's not here yet. So this February we decided to celebrate every holiday. This week started off with Ethan's 100 days at school. Then came Ground hog's day. On Ground hog's day we woke up to no electricity. Brr it was cold! So we started the day with our special donuts by candle light. Cam came down and exclaimed "This is the perfect day!" We made shadows since we had no lights. All in all it was pretty fun, until Jack came down and threw up...Oh well. At least two of the kids enjoyed it.

What to do during those winter months?

2011-01-26T17:42:00.000-08:00

Grow up before mommy's eyes. Laugh and smile lots.

Take out every car in the house and play demolition derby, or race, or obstacle course.

Love on your siblings

Make cookies with way too many sprinkles, then eat them!

Take a nap with daddy. Could they look anymore alike?

A couple of Reagan pix

2011-01-16T14:18:00.000-08:00

She's a happy baby!

Cousin Robbie feeding her

Did I mention she loves to be naked?

Reagan is doing great. She has hit 3 months and is just a happy baby. She still wakes up once at night to eat, but she goes right back down. She loves her bottle, loves baths, and loves to watch her mobile. I must say she is soo fun to dress :) We think she is about 12 lbs now. We go to the doctor in two weeks, so we'll see.

New Years

2011-01-16T14:03:00.000-08:00

Ethan and Angie playing at my parent's house during our annual party!

New Years at Grandma and Papa's. Cam with Gia his favorite cousin!

Every January I start to get excited to start another year. A new beginning, a chance to clean out the old. A new start and when needed a goodbye to anything tough from the year before. That also means cleaning out the house. A process I quite enjoy. Well, that's been kind of hard with so many helping hands. I guess it will be a prolonged process!

This January I decided to take sometime to count my blessings instead. What a good year we've had. Though 2010 was an economically challenging year for all of us. We've been blessed with a home and food. We've been blessed with health and happiness. We have been blessed with good family and friends. As a mom I feel especially blessed. I look at my kids and am amazed with each of them. Ethan has grown into such a nice kid. I'm so impressed with what Kindergarten has done for him. He is so kind and sweet and I'm so proud of him. Cam has learned to wait his turn and share. He is so loving towards his sister. Jack is talking up a storm and really doesn't need speech anymore. He has come so far he is such a gift to us all. Not to mention we added Reagan to our crazy bunch. Through a tough pregnancy and a scary beginning she has done just great. We are so blessed and I can only hope next year blesses our family too. I will remember 2010 in fondness and look forward to all 2011 brings.

Christmas

2011-01-16T13:59:00.000-08:00

This Year Christmas was awesome! All 3 of the boys were really into it! Cam was so excited I thought his head might explode. Jack loved his Mickey stuffed animal and light up shoes. Ethan got a cool circuit set, some Star Wars toys, and a kid lap top computer that he loves! Christmas was awesome for mommy and daddy too. I think Reagan slept through most of it, making it even better :)

Cam's Birthday

2010-11-06T19:15:00.000-07:00

Cam loving his sister. His sister eating his nose.

The 3 boys

Eric's creation

Pizza and friends

Riding a train..

Due to our vacation and some scheduling issues we did Cam's 4th birthday party a little early. The party was at Entertrainment Junction, and the kids had a blast. I cannot believe Cammy, my little Cammy is almost 4! Where does the time go. He's a great kid. Always making us laugh and so full of energy. His new moves are some strange round-off thing he does while Power Ranger fighting with his brothers and a running headstand onto the couch. I must also add that he is always the "pink" Power Ranger...sigh, some things just don't change. I also have to say that watching him with his baby sister is so much fun. He could not love her any more. They are so cute together.

Halloween

2010-11-06T19:04:00.000-07:00

I've heard of the "Grouchy Ladybug" how about the grouchy flower???? Reagan was not so into Halloween this year, but she did a good job of crying to scare those teenage girl trick or treaters out of having babies!

Jack as Thomas. He did a little trick or treating, then decided riding with the beer was better.

Ethan as Lightening McQueen for the 3rd year in a row. Well, at least he's economical.

Sorry sideways again, but here's Cam as Mickey Mouse. He was an expert trick or treater, keeping up with all the 7 year olds! He likes his candy.

We had a great Halloween. We celebrated with our neighbor's in our usual fashion. Starting with Jim's Chili, then the men and their wagon's of beer...I mean kids...head out to trick or treat. The women stay back to "pass out candy" drink hot cider and rum... You get the picture.

Reagan's Baptism

2010-11-06T18:57:00.000-07:00

I have no idea how to rotate this pic...sorry, but it's my fav of Reagan.

Umm is this what your supposed to do in church? Great grandma, what are you teaching Jack???

All the Caton kids in one picture. Pretty sure it's the only one in existence.

Eric's cake creation!

We had an absolutely beautiful day for the baptism. Reagan slept through the whole thing and the day went off without a hitch. It was very special to have our friends and family there with us.

Random Reagan Pictures

2010-11-06T18:50:00.000-07:00

Jack and his sister. He actually seems to like her.

Her first bath...Looks a lot like Jack's!

1 week

This is how Reagan did her pumpkin carving

Happy 1 month! The time is flying!

Field Trips

2010-11-06T18:37:00.001-07:00

Some of Ethan's class at the farm.

Ethan's best buddy from school

So 3 year old classes don't stay still for pictures.

Cam's pumpkin

Ethan and Cam both took field trips to different farms. Daddy was "lucky" enough to go on both trips. Here are some cute shots.

October Updates/ Randome Cuteness

2010-11-06T18:22:00.001-07:00

Daddy's girl

A rare find...3 smiling boys in a picture

Kindred spirits

So I have a few posts to catch up on! We have been crazy around here. Along with a new baby we've had school, field trips, a baptism, Halloween, and a birthday! Phew, I'm happy to say we have a small break now. Actually, my wonderful husband planned a wonderful small vacation for next week! What an awesome 10th anniversary gift. I can't wait. We haven't had an alone vacation since before Ethan was born. So looking forward to it!

2010-10-11T17:08:00.000-07:00

Cam feeding his sister

Ethan, so happy with "his" baby!

We're going home :)

One week old

So we had a crazy birth and hospital stay. It went something like this:
1. Uneventful C-section, Reagan came out looking great.
2. Platelet count taken immediately, Reagan started getting petechia and bruising.
3. Platelet count came back at 14, which is critically low.
4. Baby whisked away to receive IVIG
5. Mom brought to recovery, hemorrhage occurs.
6. Mom needs to give blood to baby, but her own counts are too low.
7. Finally mom convinces them to take blood.
8. Baby given blood platelets
9. Mom passes out and is given transfusion.
10. 48 hours later everyone is fine!
11. Thursday everyone goes home.

A week later it's just like none of it ever happened.

I cannot feel anything but blessed. I have two healthy children, who started with a condition that many don't survived. It's just a God thing. I continue to be so convinced of the plan that has been laid for us. However, this will be our last newborn, so I plan to savor every moment.

One Day

2010-10-02T17:48:00.000-07:00

So that's where we are, one day before my C-section, just about 32 hours left. I really cannot believe it's almost here. So excited, and nervous. Just want to see this baby and know everything is okay. We've made it to the end and well here we are. I feel like this has been the longest pregnancy ever. Just kept wondering if we would get here and now we are here, but the end is the scary part. Many people have reassured me about the C-section, but to tell you the truth I could care less about that. I know I will be fine and I will heal. All I want to see is a healthy little Reagan. The rest will mean very little to me. We have planned and are ready if she has low platelets, if we can get her out unharmed we are good to go. I believe that by 7:45 Monday morning it will all be over and I hope to see this beautiful baby girl. Please keep her in your prayers.

Jack's First Day of Schhol

2010-10-02T17:37:00.000-07:00

Okay so I'm a bit behind. Please forgive me it's been a little busy around here. Here are some pix from Jack's school. He is loving it. He has a great class and a great teacher, so I'm sure it will be a successful year.

Baby Scoop

2010-09-15T18:12:00.000-07:00

So we went to the doctor today and had an ultrasound. So far everything is looking good. Reagan is about 6lbs and 18 inches. On the small size, but still in the normal range. We have scheduled our C-section for October 4th at 7:30 am...meaning I get to go to the hospital at 5:30 in the morning.

I ask for your continued prayers on the safe birth of this little girl and for her mother's sanity. This has been a bit of a challenge and lesson in patience. Let's just say I will be very happy to be done with a healthy baby in my arms.

I'm very much looking forward to meeting this little one, and being able to sleep, and not having my back hurt, and being able to have a drink, and most of all to have the stress of the pregnancy over with!

PreSchool for Cam

2010-09-12T19:18:00.000-07:00

Who's happy about starting preschool???

So Cam has been asking about school since Ethan started. Thank goodness he finally got to go. Highlights were: wearing his light up tennis shoes, seeing his favorite teacher, and eating snack!

Jack gets to start next week.

A Busy Weekend!

2010-09-12T19:03:00.000-07:00

Outside Movie Night with the neighbors

Labor Day weekend was a busy one. We started off by hopping in the car and heading to Youngstown. On Saturday we visited the Canfield Fair. I went to this fair every year as a child and it really was fun to take my kids there. They loved the animals, machines, rides, and food. Jack LOVED fair food!

On Sunday night we came back to Cincinnati and enjoyed a movie projected on the neighbor's garage. We had about 13 kids there and they had a blast.

On Monday we took a Coney Island Excursion tickets compliments of one of our neighbor's. The kids had a blast. It was a fun yet tiring weekend!

Ethan's First Day of School

2010-08-28T06:09:00.001-07:00

Ethan and Cam ready for Ethan's big day!

Ethan at 6:30 in the morning!

Ethan at Annunciation.

Ethan started Kindergarten last week. I can't say I was super sad or emotional. Maybe a tiny bit, but he was so ready for something new. I was nervous about how it would go. Would he actually use their big restroom without an adult there, would he talk to anyone ect. ect? However, he seems to have done great. His teacher told me he was chatty the second day :) For most kids I would be concerned with too chatty, for Ethan this is great! He seemed happy and told me all about it.

He told me everything was his favorite part. He also told me how the school used to be a library and all about its history. He then proceeded to tell me that they sold milk in the cafeteria and that it sure looked good. He was very excited when I told him he could buy some if he wanted too. Ahh, it's the little things in life!

Next week will be the real challenge: 5 full days in 90 degree weather (no air conditioning of course). I fully expect to have a crabby kid. Hopefully the adjustment will happen fast, and he'll save the crabby for at home.

Reagan's Room

2010-08-28T06:02:00.001-07:00

So we have actually finished Reagan's room. Now all we need is Reagan. Less than 5 weeks to go, and I am sooo ready to be done and have this baby! It has been a long pregnancy. I can't wait to feel comfortable, not sick, and to be able to have a drink again. 3 boys + one high risk pregnancy =one stressed and tired mommy! One month to go.

Trip to Noris Lake

2010-08-13T18:14:00.000-07:00

Campfire

Daddy and his boys

Our "big" catch

Ethan loving his marshmellows.

Our computer is finally up and running again!

Last week, thanks to some good friends of Eric's, we took a family trip to Tennessee. We've been talking about camping all summer, but well I'm quite sure this pregnant lady has little interest in sleeping outside! So we went to Lake Noris and stayed in a friend's house while doing all the camping activities.

It was so much fun! We kept it simple. We told the kids the TV's didn't work, Eric's cell phone really didn't work, and we spent the time together. We mostly fished and swam, and had campfires. Ethan loved fishing and was really quite good at it. Cam loved swimming, and well Jack liked riding on the golf cart. He's really not much into the camping thing yet!

The kids did catch 6 bluegills. Mind you they were about 3 inches big each. Ethan insisted that daddy clean and eat them. That was so funny because it was about 1 inch of meat total. Watching him grill it made me laugh. He had to be really careful that the meat didn't slip through the grill.

The weekend was such a blessing. The kids were awesome and we really had a lot of fun. I'm looking forward to doing some more trips like that one!

Baby Stuff

2010-07-07T19:13:00.000-07:00

So after finding out it was a girl I did have to have a little fun. We did fine a replacement for the airplane themed bedroom. I also had to buy one little girl outfit. I have a grandmother or two that I thought might be interested in these!

4th of July Weekend

2010-07-05T14:39:00.000-07:00

Parade time!

Children with fire!

Our Float

A Festival

Jack riding the rides

I have to say the 4th has always been a sort of blah holiday for me. I don't know we always have a good time, but it just wasn't a real big thing. The last 2 years have been a bit different. I appreciate our country more now that we have Jack. I realize how lucky we are to live in a country that I could bring Jack here and let him have all the medical attention that he needs.

In China many people were shocked that we were willing to take a cleft baby. They weren't being cruel or mean or anything like that, it just wasn't understood. Their country did not afford them the opportunity to have the medical services we have. So many children die of starvation for a correctable condition. I feel very blessed that we have those opportunities here. I know the US is far from perfect, but I also know that my little boy will be able to attain his potential here.

As I spent the 4th with our close friends that have a little boy with special needs, a little girl from Vietnam, and their oldest daughter, plus our 3 children (2 of which would not have survived in many countries) I could not help but feel blessed. I hope everyone had a great holiday!

Visit to Grandma's

2010-07-05T14:32:00.000-07:00

Last week we spent several days at Grandma's and Papa's. We had a lot of fun! The kids went to Chuckie Cheese for Jack's actual birthday, we fed some fish, met up with some friends at McDonald's Playland, played at the mall, and went to a graduation party. The kids had a blast!

Celebrate the Day

2010-07-03T08:54:00.000-07:00

As I sat in the car after my appointment waiting for Eric I was on top of the world. We saw awesome pictures and movie of our little girl. I was so excited about having a new baby. One that I figured I'd never have and a girl to top it off. So much decorating shopping fun, fun, fun.

As I was sitting there another couple came out. Obviously their news not so good. In that moment all I could think was I'm so sorry. We've totally been there. It's not a fun place to be. I just wanted to go hug the lady and say it will be okay, but I knew it didn't feel that way. I wanted her to know that it's all part of the journey that brings you to where you're supposed to be, but I knew that was no consolation. Without our hard times our loses we would have never been brought to Jack, nor would we be having this baby. As I sat there I remembered standing in that same position. The one where your excitement and dreams almost come to a crashing halt, but they don't they just change. I shed a tear for them and said a prayer knowing that as my day started off as awesome as it could, theirs would be a day of grief.

I also reminded myself to take the time to enjoy our celebration, because every day is not so grand. However, I also understand that everyday is the way it is supposed to be and will take me to the right place. I pray that couple will find that peace.

There's no stem on the apple!!

2010-07-02T08:18:00.001-07:00

The Caton tradition is broken it's a GIRL!!!

Jack updates!

2010-07-01T23:16:00.000-07:00

Jack's birthday cake made by daddy! Mickey is his favorite.

Jack's birthday party in the backyard.

Jack wearing underwear.

Jack in his big boy bed.

As you can see Jack has had a very productive month. He has moved into Cam's old room and is sleeping in his big boy bed. He is now potty trained. He was sooo easy! Wave an M&M and he was running for the potty. He also turned 3. We had a great birthday party with a Mickey mouse theme. He was so excited and ran around singing happy birthday to Jack. His whole face lit up when all the attention was on him.

We also had his speech re-evaluated, which went well. His articulation is good for his age and he has no air coming out from his nose (which is awesome for a cleft kid). This means he will only need one more surgery when he is about 7 to close the gum line! Awesome news for us. He is a little behind in sentence structure, which we knew. He will start group therapy sometime this summer. We are so amazed at his progress.

The ultrasound

2010-05-29T03:21:00.000-07:00

So last Thursday we had our first ultra sound. I'm so happy to report that everything looked great. The baby has all its parts is measuring nicely, and was moving all over the place. Always an awesome feeling to see the baby! We were hoping to find out the sex, but no such luck! The baby had other plans and stuck the umbilical cord right between it's legs!!! Eric and I don't mind too much, but we do have some anxious grandparents! We haven't decided whether we're going to choke up the money for a 3D ultra sound, or just go for the surprise. Soo we may have a girl with a very boy room for a bit!!! Oh well, surprises are nice too...especially good ones.

We ask for continued prayers that this baby has a nice high platelet count. As I said we really won't know until birth. So far I'm feeling much better and hoping this is a good sign! Only 19 weeks to go...not that I'm counting!

I would post some ultrasound pics, but their really not that great because the baby was moving everywhere. I would have to label them for anyone to figure them out!

Disney

2010-05-27T02:43:00.000-07:00

Yes notice the Tinker Bell toy he is holding...ahh, my manly man.

Jack loved dumbo! He can now say elephant quite clearly!

Right after Ethan's birthday we took a vacation to Disney! Thanks mom and dad! It was an action packed week. First we took an airplane to Orlando. Each of my kids had a piece of roll luggage to bring on the plane. I have to say it was so cute to watch them proudly tote the luggage through the airport. It was a bit slow going, but well worth it! The kids did awesome on the flight and loved every minute of it!

While in Disney we visited all the parks and spent a day swimming at the condo. I do believe the kids will have many memories of this trip!

Highlights:

Ethan rode all the rides and loved them! We were really shocked!

Cam loved the fireworks. He had so many cute quotes. During the fireworks he said, " ohh, the red one was my favorite"

Jack loved everything, but the fireworks.

Meeting Mickey Mouse, both Cam and Jack waited all week to meet the mouse. They gave him kisses and were so excited. Ethan wouldn't go near him!

Eating lunch in the castle ( my kids loved it), However, I was a little concerned when they gave each of them a plastic sword before lunch (umm whose brilliant idea was that?)

Eating dinner during the hoopdie Doo (sp?). Fun dinner show that we all enjoyed.

Swimming at the condo. All three children got into the pool and swam for hours.

The monorail. A fav of all my children.

Animal Kingdom..All 3 children loved.

Eating at the Rain forest Cafe. Again a big hit, well until Jack fell asleep:)

Watching my brother with my kids. He was awesome and a huge help.

Having grandparents helping hands and sharing memories.

Low lights:

Hot hot hot...Not cute with a pregnant lady

Tantrums from tired kids.

Long lines

carrying around children in the heat (do you notice a theme?)

Ethan being stubborn and whiny (mostly tired and hot)

Cam not riding anything inside because it was dark (umm that's a lot of the rides)

Jack screaming through fireworks

Cam pooping on a bridge in Magic Kingdom (nice)

Overall, I think it's a trip we will have many memories from and we are grateful we were able to do it! Thanks again mom and dad. Having said that I think we'll take a few years of beaches before we do that again!

Keeping Up

2010-05-27T02:24:00.000-07:00

So, what can I say I've kind of fallen behind on the blogging. I was so busy the last couple of months and well exhausted, so some things fell on the back burner. As I near the end of my teaching year I feel that I should have more time to do some catching up!

About a week ago Ethan turned 5! I cannot believe that he is finished with pre-school. Next year he will be starting Kindergarten. He is so excited, and actually so am I. Sometimes a new chapter is such a good thing. I know lots of parents are sad about their kids going to school, but Ethan has always liked growing up. It's hard for me to be sad, because he is so happy about this next step. I enjoy watching Ethan grow into each new stage...well, at least most of them. He has never enjoyed being the baby and would prefer to be considered a big kid. This is always present in his actions towards his brothers. They have no idea how good they've got it :)

For his party we went to the same inflatable place as last year. He also continued with his Lightening McQueen cakes (this time daddy had to make dirt track Lightening McQueen). So he's a bit predictable. We had a great time with friends and family.

2010-05-04T11:37:00.000-07:00

Pujols look out!!

Here is our little slugger, Ethan, at his first T-Ball game.

Ethan recently started T-Ball. Eric and I were very pleased to find that he's not too bad. He loves to get up and hit, and will actually push ahead to get his turn. For most kids this would be a negative, for Ethan slightly amazing. He also goes for the ball. He never catches it, but neither does anyone else :)

Watching the game was great! Everyone hits, no one is out. When the ball goes into the field the whole team runs for it. I laughed the whole four innings. So much fun!

Our Big News

2010-04-01T12:15:00.000-07:00

My bruised Cam

The pictures that make my cry and make me count my blessings. A huge driving force in our adoption of Jack

For those who didn't know yet I am pregnant. I was waiting for a heartbeat before I went public. We got to hear it today. :)

Well, I can honestly say Eric and I were a bit surprised by this pregnancy, but do believe it is all a part of God's plan. While I trust this and know whatever happens it is part of the plan, this pregnancy elicits so many emotions. We are of course excited. I thought this chapter of our lives was closed and now it may not be. We are also incredibly nervous and anxious. As some of you know my Cammy was born with very low platelets and we are fairly sure it was caused from a hereditary factor. We were told he might not make it, but thanks to a blood transfusion and a special drug he is perfect today. From what we understand this one has a 25-50% chance of the same issues. There really isn't a way to know if the child will have it or not until birth. We are hoping that we can be as prepared as possible and that the baby will be okay. We ask for special prayers on this matter.

Having said that, I can also say that 2 years ago I would have totally freaked out over this pregnancy and would have had some sort of breakdown. Due to our adoption experience I have learned to trust God and go with the plan. I also know that even if the worst happens we will survive, we will move forward, and we will be okay.

I pray and hope everyday that this baby will come into the world pink and healthy. I pray that God will give us the strength to deal with all that is in our future. Which I hope will be many sleepless nights with a newborn.

Gotcha Day Gathering

2010-03-30T16:19:00.000-07:00

Jack head first on the slide!

The awesome cupcake cake (Thanks Felicia and Matt)

Most of the crew and some siblings!

Last weekend many people from our travel group joined us in the Nati to help celebrate our 1 year gotcha day. We started out Friday with dinner at Blue Goose. On Saturday we went to Larosa's and had pizza and cake. Then off to Sharon Woods for a day of fun.

It was so nice to see everyone and to see how much the kids have grown and changed. They are all so amazing. We feel so blessed to have such a great group of people to call our China family. I'm still in awe of how much that journey changed me as a person. I would not trade it for the world.

Thanks so much to all that helped plan, all that traveled, and everyone for making an effort to gather. We cannot wait until July to see everyone again!

Happy Gotcha Day Baby!

2010-03-22T16:28:00.001-07:00

Now!

Gotcha Day

I can't believe it's been one year since we received Jack! It has flown bye. As I'm writing this the emotions of that day come flooding back. There is nothing that can prepare you for that day. I remember not sleeping the night before imagining what it would be like. When the day finally arrived we waited not so patiently all morning. Then we were taken to a building and placed in a room with equally nervous strangers awaiting their sons and daughters. Suddenly the room was chaos. Babies being placed in arms and crying and well just chaos.

They handed Jack to Eric, I think I was too stunned to comprehend what all was going on. As Eric placed him in my arms it was just soo weird. I just stared at him. This little guy who looked nothing like us, who was just a stranger. For about 5 minutes that's what it felt like. I just remember looking at his way too skinny body, his scarred lip, brittle hair, too big pink pants, and striped blue top, and too small little sandals, and thinking really this is my son. Then a few minutes later it was like yah this is my son. It's been that way ever since.

I still am not sure why God put our son in China, but there is where he was. He has been nothing but amazing. He went from not really being able to walk to running, jumping, rolling, diving, and everything else. We thought for sure speech would be a huge issue, but he's talking. We may still need speech, but boy have we seen progress. He's an amazing kid and we feel so blessed to be his parents. We also feel incredibly blessed to be some of the few people who get to experience adoption. It so changed my perspective on life..really. It taught me such a lesson in patience, and faith.

We are so looking forward to meeting up with some of our travel group this weekend. I'm so grateful that we have been able to stay in touch with some of the people who had this experience with us. How amazing a journey it has been!

Can't wait to see what God has in store next. You never know..really you never know.

Welcome Spring!

2010-03-09T11:17:00.000-08:00

My sweet boy. I just love this picture!

The other morning Ethan went into Jack's room, and all I heard was "book". When I walked in Ethan was reading Jack his favorite books. So cute!

Ethan arranging beer caps at the beer tap.

What they don't know is that their wedding plans are already made.

The three boys had a great time at the zoo!

So finally some spring weather! We spent the whole weekend playing outside. It was great. Our neighbor's decided it was time for a pretend it's spring cook out. The kids had a great time and so did the adults.

Then on Sunday we made a trip to the zoo. The kids had a great time. Jack loved it! He pointed at the tigers said, "come here", and then "meow". Umm, maybe he didn't notice their size! Ethan and Cam cracked up!

Fun project at our house!

2010-01-24T17:37:00.000-08:00

Just a cute shot of Jack to make up for the next one.

Umm, drinking and power tools is a bad idea. Seriously, look at that face?!

Daddy's (urr, umm) Ethan's new train table and train project.

Just a cool shot of the train. Somehow, our splatter kid painted walls look like a really cool backdrop!

Not much to update. Eric and I decided that our children should be exposed to saving, earning, and working on a project that takes a while. Ethan finally earned his "real" train set. It took a while, but he finally did it! We just did a simple oval for now, but more is sure to be added. He and daddy are working a little at a time to build a real beauty. Mommy is just hoping that my house won't turn into a train museum!

Jack also started a little pre-preschool program. It's just one day a week for 8 weeks. He's so cute. He's not the youngest, but he sure is the smallest. He loves it. Mister social always has a group of friends around him!

The Cutie with school bag in-hand.

Christmas Fun

2010-01-10T18:38:00.000-08:00

Sorry I've been so slow to update the blog! It's been crazy busy here! We had a busy and fun Christmas break.

We went to Akron to ride the polar express with grandma and papa. It was a long way to the North Pole! It was a blast. The kids loved it. I kept getting a bit teary eyed because all I could think was that last year we had just received updated pictures of Jack. All last year Ethan kept saying, " next year Jack will come with us". Now here he was and he had so much fun. He loved the "choo, choo", the hot chocolate, the singing and the dancing. Nothing but smiles. It was great.

We stayed at home for Christmas Eve. We attended mass, had left over pizza, and let the kids open a couple presents from friends. The favorite was a travel Hungry Hippo game. Ethan and Cam played with it for hours. It was really fun to see them be able to play games together.

Christmas day we spent the morning opening and playing with gifts. Some favorites were: a mini air hockey table, a small remote control car, and the Star Wars movies. All 3 of my kids are watching them over and over.

My favorite part of Christmas was watching Jack. It was so cool to have a child be able to "get it" on his first Christmas. His face opening his large monster truck was so priceless. Eric will be uploading a video later. He had so much fun!

On the 27th we went to Youngstown to have Christmas with my mom and dad. We spent a week there and the kids had so much fun. My parents live in Youngstown and it snowed a ton. The kids had a ball riding with papa on the tractor and sledding. We also had our annual family New Years party. The kids had fun with all of our relatives. Meanwhile Eric went off to New Orleans for the UC game.

December Happenings

2009-12-13T19:27:00.000-08:00

My three little snuggle bugs!

Eric and I stayed up late to decorate these cookies. We will be individually bagging them to use for teacher/coaches/daycare worker/friend gifts.

Jack and Cam "helping" daddy decorate the outside. Somehow that involved sword fighting with giant candy canes, and using the giant bulbs as balls.

Jack with his Mickey ornament. He is really good at taking the ornaments off the tree. Putting them on...well. You will also notice he has no pants on. As I look through my pictures I realize that in most of them someone is missing their pants. Hmm, maybe we should work on that.

Jack in his first snow. He stood there for 5 minutes (perfectly still) Then cried and wanted to go in. Ahh, he is my son! If it wasn't socially inappropriate I would cry whenever I had to go out in the cold! On the other hand Ethan and Cam played outside as long as I would let them. Jack and I watched from the window...perfect :)

Not much to say, just a busy week of Christmas preparations! Enjoy the pictures.

Thanksgiving

2009-11-30T16:22:00.001-08:00

This is Jack wearing his new favorite hat. My cousin works for the Yankees, so I'm sure he'll be happy!

Eric and I went to the outlets in PA Thursday at midnight. This was the line to get ono the bus to be transported from the far away parking lot. It was crazy! We really didn't need to shop just wanted to see what it was like. We had a ball. Everyone was really nice and having a good time.

Cam and Ethan happily sitting on Sayde's lap.

This year for Thanksgiving we went to Youngstown to visit Grandma and Papa, Great Grandma, some cousins, and a Great Aunt and Uncle. The kids had a wonderful time and it was nice to see everyone. Ethan loved Sayde (my cousin). He is still talking about her. She must be pretty special because he is pretty picky. He spent most of Thanksgiving playing with her and kept her very busy :)

A few things we are Thankful for:

Good friends that are always around when we need them

Awesome neighbors that we can count on

Health

Family that loves us and our children no matter what

Love

Perspective

A House

Food

Medical care

Our children

Life

There is so much more.

I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Let us remember to be thankful always.

A Year Ago

2009-11-30T11:55:00.000-08:00

Do you remember what you were doing a year ago? I sure do. We were trying desperately to figure out which direction God wanted us to go in order to expand our family. We had adoptions running in both Kaz and NSN China. Just when we were starting to get really frustrated God made it very clear that we were supposed to be adopting from SN China. Between hitting walls with our Kaz adoption, an interesting church sermon, and our own hearts we knew what we needed to do. After putting our paper work into the China SN we received a referral in one day.

A year ago we were staring at a picture of our little boy. We were frantically calling IA doctors and filling out papers. We were running around like maniacs. It was one of the best days of our lives. We were in complete awe of the process that brought us to our little boy. He was just the right one and we knew it! A year ago was when I fell in love with my son.

A year later I cannot believe we ever didn't have him. He has fit in and amazed us in every way. His smile lights up a room, and he can charm just about everyone. Even the tough nosed doctors have a tough time keeping a straight face with him around. All I can say is God sure knew what was best. I cannot even imagine life without his smile, his charming eyes, his funny tantrums, and mostly his "I wuv you".

I am so thankful that I have had the experience of adoption. I'm so thankful for this wonderful spirit that has been put in my house. There are no words to define the feelings we have been allowed to embrace over this past year. There is no way for me to even explain the amount of gratitude that I have for being allowed to be Jack's mom. One year later life is grand.

I wonder what I'll be doing next year at this time?

Cam's Birthday Party and a Weekend at Grandma and Papa's

2009-11-15T18:38:00.001-08:00

Jack is ready to drive the hayride!

Cam at his party! My happy little man.

Everyone on a hayride!

The boys feeding the fish with grandma and papa

Last weekend we celebrated Cam's birthday. We turned our backyard into a minature farm. We had a bonfire where we cooked our own hotdogs and smores too. Thanks to our awesome neighbor's we had a hay ride (4 wheeler with a nice hitch). We also had pinata's, glowsticks, and fun in the dark. It really was a lot of fun. Cam seemed to really enjoy himself.

This week my wonderful (really wonderful) parents took all 3 of the boys for a long weekend. Eric and I got so much done!! We put up our closet doors, changed our blinds, raised our coat hooks, built steps, stuccoed (sp?) our old garage wall, washed the van, cleaned the entire house, organzed our office, redid our files, cleaned out the tool room, slept, and went out to dinner. I'm pretty sure we could have knocked down our whole house and rebuilt it! Amazing how much you can finish without three little helpers! Meanwhile the boys visited a Christmas 'store and fed some fish at a park in Youngstown.

Cam is growing up!

2009-11-12T11:35:00.000-08:00

Cam's first day of school

Cam the ham!

In the last few weeks my baby Cam has decided to grow up. He is sleeping in his big boy bed. Even better he's potty trained! He was so easy. A couple of days and he was finished with diapers. We are so proud of him. He is so proud of himself and it's so cute!

So with that said I'm going to rant a little. We were having some childcare issues. My children go to childcare where I work (which has always been a blessing). Recently, every time I picked up Cam we had reports of him fighting with his brother ect. ect. I then realized that because Jack often screams (for nothing) they assumed Cam did something...Sometimes true sometimes not. I also realized that they weren't really doing much but letting them free play for 4 hours. This would be fine once a week, but four times a week was not working for Cam. I realized he wants to be a big boy. We found a nice little school called Sally's that was willing to take him in their 3 year old program. He loves it, now he only has 2 days of childcare and all is well!

I really cannot believe that Cam is 3! Where does time go? I have to say I'm a little sad. After all, this is the baby I almost lost. This is the child I prayed so hard that it hurt. This is the baby that changed my perspective and direction. He is part of the reason we have Jack. He means more to us than one could ever know. This is the baby I rocked to sleep every night of his first 2 years. Every morning I have gotten Cam carried him down stairs and plopped him on my lap with his cup of milk. I went to get him out of bed, after the first night his new bed, and he said, "I'll do it myself mommy". I almost cried. Thank goodness he bounded from his room with a giant smile and hug. I guess I have to accept the fact that he's growing up.

Happy Halloween!

2009-11-01T14:11:00.000-08:00

Ethan's soccer season is over. He received his first trophy and was very proud!

So, why are our pumpkins all mushy by Halloween???

Jack fell asleep on our bed at 10:30 am. Hmm maybe you shouldn't have gotten up at 5:30!

All three of their first Halloween's! One from China, one from, Vietnam, one from Russia, and yes we all live next to each other!

Jack got up early on Halloween morning. He was completely crazy all day!

Ethan on his farm field trip! It was nice and muddy.

Halloween was fun as usual. Jack got up at 5:30 am. He was so crazy. It was like he knew all long. We started the evening off with our neighbor's and our traditional Chili meal (thanks Jim). Then the dad's took all the kids trick or treating and the ladies gave out candy and drank too much wine (well at least I did!) Jack did really well and signed thank you almost every time. Cam was an expert! He could have gone all night. Once he got back he wanted to try each candy taking a bite and returning it to his bucket. Ethan was so tired, but did pretty good once he warmed up. I can't believe Halloween has already come and gone. It's my favorite holiday, so I'm a little sad, but at least I have lots of candy!

Other News:

Cam is indeed sleeping in his bed, the crib is officially gone! He loves his new big boy room! Cam is also using the potty as long as he is naked. However, once underwear is added we have lots of accidents. Anyone have suggestions for this??? I'm pretty sure we can't leave the house naked! I cannot believe my little boy is growing up! When did that happen?

Looking forward to a great November!

Jack's latest update

2009-10-22T03:17:00.000-07:00

Cam in his big boy bed!

Jack riding the pony at our pumpkin patch festival. He loved it so much and really, really didn't want to get off!

Just a quick post to update on some good news at the Caton house. Jack had his 6 month IA doctor visit. He is officially 22 lbs, 32 inches, and his head has grown. His head size is now on a US chart. His weight and height are very close to being the 3rd percentile! He also scored about on level for all areaes. His fine motor was his strongest and his speech the weakest, but he was within a couple months of his age on everything! He has been officially cleared from the IA department. Yay, one less doctor visit.

Cam actually slept all night in his big boy bed! I thought for sure he would be at least 10 before he would do it, but last night we stuck some rails up and bribed him with an extra story and he did it!

Happy 6 months Jack!

2009-10-04T19:06:00.000-07:00

Moon fest train ride. A favorite of Ethan and Jack's!

Jack now!

One of the first pictures we got 11 months ago.

I cannot believe it, but Jack has been home 6 months. It seems like he's always been a part of us, yet time has gone by so quickly. He has grown and changed so much. When we got him he was 29 inches and 17lbs. He wore a size 3 shoe. Oh and he had a giant hole in his mouth. He had 8 teeth and hardly any hair. He could walk about 8 steps before he fell, and he had no words. Now he is over 31 inches tall, weighs almost 22 lbs, has all his teeth and wears a size 5 shoe. He is minus a hole (the one that shouldn't have been there). He can walk, run, jump, hang, do forward rolls, walk backwards and balance on one foot. He says quite a few words (in Jack speak). His newest phrase is, "I want it". As you can see he is fitting in just fine:) He is smiley and laughy and is a lot of fun! Happy 6 months baby!

We also visited a FCC Moon festival this weekend. The Moon Festival is a big Chinese holiday that is celebrated on the night where the moon should be its brightest. Ironically we couldn't see the moon at all! It is much like a harvest festival and is celebrated with food dancing and folk stories or legends. They serve traditional moon cakes which sort of taste like pies with many different types of fillings. While at the festival we met up with 3 other families that we traveled with to China. It was wonderful to see everyone again and to see how great all the kids are doing!

I will be adding more pix later, but I am having trouble getting them off of Eric's phone right now. They're lost in cyber world!

Rain, rain, rain and more rain!

2009-09-27T12:40:00.000-07:00

Well, at least we got to use our boots!

It has seriously rained here since last Saturday. 8 days of rain, rain, and more rain. Please tell me we will see the sun again. Perhaps God has forgotten that he has blessed me with 3 little boys, and that 3 little boys need to go outside before they destroy the house and their mother goes insane!

On a positive note Cam actually used the potty!!! He was running around half naked (as often happens in our house), and all of a sudden he said, "mommy, look what I did". Sure enough he peed in the potty!!!

On a negative note Jack is sick. He has a double ear infection and some form of hand, foot, and mouth disease. He is not a happy camper. I'm hoping it passes quickly!

Here's to a sunnier week!

School, bowling and more!

2009-09-20T18:52:00.000-07:00

Ethan with his backpack on his first day of school.

Cam in his cool bowling shoes.

Jack in his bowling debut

Ethan giving it all he's got. We had to hope for a gust of wind to help the ball make it to the pins!

This week Ethan started pre-school. He loves it! School is his thing. His favorite part is play dough. I think kids should play with play dough all through high school. Maybe it would improve behavior!

All three kids went to my nephew's bowling party and had a blast. Jack jumped up and down and clapped each time he went. Check out the cool ramps they have for the little kids. It was great fun and I can't believe Robbie is 6!

Jack learned how to drink from a straw! Okay probably not that exciting for you, but we were really excited. It's the first time in his whole life that he was able to suck. Maybe it will mean less spills around the house :). Jack was pretty thrilled himself. He had a very proud face when he was able to get mommy's coke out of the straw. I guess he just needed the right motivation.

Fun conversations and quotes at our house:

After soccer: me : "Ethan what did you learn at soccer today?" Ethan: "How to corner kick" Me: How do you do that?" Ethan looking at me stupidly, "You kick it from the corner".

Ethan, " Mommy I am looking forward to going on the Polar Express". Me, "me too". Ethan, "Mommy, when do we look backward?"

Cam's version of the veggie tales song..."Mac n cheese, celery, gotta be veggie tales". Here he has been eating plenty of veggies and we just didn't realize it! Who knew???

Catching up

2009-09-13T19:14:00.001-07:00

So It's been really pretty busy around here! We have started all of our sports and Ethan starts pre school this week. I decided to keep this short and sweet due to the fact I should be writing lesson plans! Oh well, that might happen early in the morning.

Exciting happenings:
1. Our neighbor's are home from Russia with their new little girl Elena Nicole. We're so excited for them and cannot wait to meet her. (Call us if you need anything!)
2. Jack has gained some wait. His shorts are finally not falling off!
3. Ethan started swimming. He actually got in the water willingly and said he liked it! (yay major success). I do figure you actually have to get in the water to swim!
4. Cam started soccer. It's a little skills class with daddy. He's actually really good. A mom brag I know, but he's really talented! (letters and numbers not so much)
5. Ethan had his first soccer game. It was pretty funny to watch 4-5 year olds play a game.
6. Jack went back to tumbling with his actual age group and did just fine. He's caught up in all areas.
7. I went on a weekend shopping trip with my mom. Totally fun and got all my Christmas shopping about done!

A preview of our Halloween costume. What do you think?? I think it's one cute tiger.

Ethan being Ethan before his soccer game.

Coach dad and mascot in purple to cheer him on!

Cam at his first practice.

Okay, so this picture needs some explanation. Notice the dirt ring on Cam's face? Well, each day I drop 3 clean children off at daycare. When I pick them up 2 are still clean and the 3rd well...

Back to busy!

2009-08-30T18:39:00.000-07:00

So I really didn't take any pictures to post this week. It was a crazy week. I went back to work in full swing. The kids did daycare every morning. Jack did great. He really loves going to daycare with his brothers. It helped that his favorite worker Julia worked all week. It was nice to have that consistency.

Not too much to report this week. Jack did much better with sleeping. We sure hope that continues! All 3 kids and I were exausted by the end of the week. This is going to take some getting use to!

On a side note my friends and neighbors are currently in Moscow finishing their adoption of their little girl! Please pray for safe travels and smooth goings for them. They are special people who deserve an amazing and wonderful journey. Please pray that the judge will waive their 10 day waiting time. They have a 4 year old at home and I know they would love to get back ASAP. For the record this will be the 3rd International adoption in the past year in our 3 house stretch. First Norah came home from Vietnam, then Jack, and now one more! What an amazing experience for all of us!

I promise to do better with the pictures next week...I hope!

Our pictures...The end of summer:(

2009-08-23T18:11:00.000-07:00

My Jack

Uh...what's he hanging from???

Loves Mickey

A rare smiling Ethan photo.

Our family.

Just thought I'd share some of the pictures that we had done. We loved them and had such a hard time choosing which photos to keep! The photographer we had took over 200 shots.

Oh, so sad that I must say good bye to summer. I go back to work this week, and in two weeks the kids start their sports, and in 3 weeks Ethan starts school. I'm always sad to see summer go. I have enjoyed my lazy times with the boys. I think it will be quite an adjustment for all of us. We have to be ready and out the door by 8:15.. Ugh, that should be interesting since Ethan and Jack haven't been getting up before 8:00! Well, will see what happens!

Headlines

2009-08-16T10:34:00.000-07:00

"Fashion expert Cam Caton Declares that Pink is the New Blue (other experts question the My Little Ponies)

"The movie, Star Wars, Zaps the Minds of Two Young Boys"

"Family Eats Fried Manatee" (or mishapen crecent rolls)

"Naked Boy Destroys Home in Minutes"

"Soccer Star Makes His Depute" (Unfortunately, he's not that photogenic)

The nasal stints are out!

2009-08-12T18:28:00.000-07:00

Before surgery. Left nostril is non existent. Look at that beautiful face.

After surgery with the lovely nasal stints. This picture pretty much wraps up his feelings.

After surgery without stints. The nostrils are much closer in size. My happy boy!

We still have some redness from the scars, but that will fade with time. Look at that beautiful face.

Recovering

2009-08-09T18:15:00.000-07:00

Cam in the pink Barbie car to go with his pink princess toothbrush

My 3 boys on quads at the party.

Cam on a pink bike with a pink helmet (sigh). Do you sense a theme. On a brighter note he can actually ride the bike.

I can't say this week was real exciting. It was kind of just a week of recovery. Jack had a rough few days, but got better each and everyday. My mom was a God send helping out with housework and the kids. He's pretty close to normal now except he has the lovely nasal stints still in and we're still on soft foods. I have to say this has not detered his eating one bit. He now has a taste for Alfredo sauce (thanks Heather:). Today he had half a banana, some mushy cereal and milk, mac n cheese, watermelon, cantaloupe, noodles with alfredo sauce, more watermelon, ice cream, and mashed sweet potatoes with lots of butter. I don't know where it all goes! He is pointing to the roof of our mouths, so we think he understands on some level. He also goes around pointing at everyone elses noses. I think he's hoping someone will take out his stints. Sorry 9 more days:( I will be so glad when he's back to normal...and so will he!

This weekend was fairly busy. Friday we went to a book store for some birthday presents and then to McDonalds. The kids had a blast. On Saturday we had a birthday party. It was construction themed with all kinds of real trucks. They also had quads for the kids to drive. Needless to say my kids loved that. Especially since we don't have any motorized vehicles and probably never will! On Sunday I took Cam to church just he and I. He was so good and sweet. Sometimes it's hard to remember how easy it was with one. Of course when we only had one it didn't seem that easy. Then Nonna came to visit and we went to a church picnic at the pool and Ethan actually got in the water!!! Minor miracle! Later we had a small birthday party for Uncle Scotty equipped with ice cream cake. Overall it was a fun weekend, but I sure am tired!

We're home!

2009-08-01T06:48:00.000-07:00

Jack's surgery went very well. He was able to have his palate corrected all the way to the gumline, which means we shouldn't need more surgery for a few years! He also had a small lip revision to get rid of scar tissue by the nose and round his nose out a bit. We can already tell that it's going to look good.

Okay, now I have to say post-op was terrible. In the PACU room we had the two best nurses ever. However, none of us could get Jack to calm down. They tried morphine and several other narcotics and nothing worked. He would sleep for 10 minutes and wake up screaming. Finally, they decided to transfer us to our private room, because we had tried everything.

The private room did not go any better. I also did not like the nurses quite as much. They were still good, but I felt like they did not listen to me very much. I could tell Jack was in a lot of pain, and all they gave him was .5 ml of tylenol, which is half the normal dose. They said this was standard on the floor. However, the kids who had their tonsils out got tylenol with codine. So basically the next 36 hours were spent with me rocking Jack until he slept, then him waking up screaming, me shooting liquids down his throat, so we could hopefully go home sometime, him screaming some more, ect.ect. As I sat there with him I was trying to hold back my tears. My poor sweet boy. I also couldn't help but think he had done this before, with no pain meds and no one to hold him. My poor baby. Overnight he would scream for 2 hours - no body checked on us, but as soon as I would get him to sleep, someone would come in to get his BP, give tylenol, or whatever, and wake him up. I totally wanted to scream. I was like "I just spent 2 hours getting him to sleep!!!" In the morning the nurses basically were saying he needed another night. When the plastics team came in I pitched my reasons for going home. I basically said he wasn't going to sleep while in the hospital, I'm already getting fluids in via syringe, and would have to force it even if we waited 3 more days, and the only pain meds he was getting was tylenol, which we could do at home. Thank God they agreed with me!

So they sent us home on Friday. As soon as we placed him in the car I knew it was the right decision. He went right to sleep. Then when we got home he took liquids with no force. We gave him a normal dose of infant tylenol, and he slept all night. He woke up at 7:30 drank over 2 glasses of Gatorade and some Pediasure and went right back to sleep. I think we are on the right track. We have a long hall ahead, but he's a trooper. I am so happy to be home and so is Jack. I'm so glad he feels like this is his safe place.

Surgery is drawing near.

2009-07-26T11:53:00.000-07:00

Notice all the people staring at us. They act like it's a circus act:) 3 boys under 4 at dinner is pretty interesting!

Jack's ready for cheerleading!

I thought these were to wash the sand off of our feet. Here they were baby pools...Who knew???

I added a few more vacation pix.

Not much to report this week. We basically hung out at home and had a good time. It was a very wet week, so we had lots of time to play with toys and run around the house. Jack is doing amazing. He has really caught up in everything. He is running and jumping and climbing. He totally wowed his tumbling teachers as he hung from the bar and touched his legs to the bar. He is so happy and healthy. He has started to put two words togather and acts so 2! He and Cam are really acting a like! They don't look the same age, but they act it!

We had family night last night which consisted of watching wipe out, car races, running around in the dark, and Jack tring to push the other two down with his feet...don't ask it's a boy thing. I often wonder what family night would be like with girls??? I probably will never know.

This Thursday Jack will have his cleft surgery. I am glad he's getting it done, but a little sad too. He is doing so awesome I just hope it doesn't cause too many set backs. He is also having a lip and nose revision. I'm a little sad his face will be different. I love it just the way it is. I know it's better in the long run, but it's just perfect to me. We are asking for prayers for a successful surgery and a not too awful recovery. Our poor little guy will be in arm splints for 3 weeks. He will only be allowed mushy food for 6 weeks. It's a long haul. Pray for his health and our sanity.

Folly Beach & FTIA reunion picnic

2009-07-20T19:17:00.000-07:00

Cam & Ethan manning the guns on the USS Yorktown

Cam the "gator whisperer"

We made Ethan stop at six walk-throughs of the train at the FTIA picnic - if not we'd probably be on walk-through 5,348 right now.

The best China travel group there is.

Cam, Jack, and John (from our travel group) sharing mini M&M's.

We spent last week at Folley Beach S.C., and then finished the week off in Indiana with a picnic for our adoption agency. It was a fun filled, but very tiring week.

Highlights of the vacation:

1. Ethan and Cam trying to share a bed in our hotel room. Quotes we heard: "I need some covers", "Where's my goggy?", "Stop tickling me", Giggling, giggling, giggling...not sleeping ect. ect. Needless to say Cam ended up in our bed.

2. The beach..All 3 boys loved it.

3. The ocean, or as Jack says "OOOO n". All three boys actually got in.

4. Crab hunting. Oh my this was a sight. The boys so loved it and wanted to do it every night. Cam was like a wild man running after crabs and grabbing them with his hands. He's either going to be a vet or an exterminator. It's a close call.

5. Starfish recovery. My boys thought that by finding the starfish and chucking them back into the ocean they were surely saving their lives.

6. Riding on the boat. We got to travel a swampy area by boat while seeing alligators and other critters.

7. Touring the USS Yorktown boat.

8. Boogie bording with Uncle Scotty. Ethan had a blast!

Thanks mom and dad for bringing us on vacation, because you know we're swimming in the money right now... Ah, but we're rich in love...right???

FTIA reunion:

After coming home Friday night we hopped in the car and traveled to Indiana to see some of the families we traveled with. We were tired, but it was great to see everyone. I cannot believe how great all the kids are doing. It was so nice to see them all running, playing, talking. It is such a blessing to have met all of them. Can't wait to meet again!

Just another week!

2009-07-06T19:10:00.000-07:00

What blue cupcake??

This was our parade float. A wagon tied to a cozy coupe car. (very official)

Decorating for the College Hill 4th of July parade.

Cam giving Jack a hug, Jack not so much feeling it.

Look, look all 3 kids in one picture!!! It's a miracle.

This was a rather slow relaxing week. It was nice after the crazy one the week before. We mostly just hung out at home and played outside. The 4th was very wet, so we went to our traditional College Hill Parade. We have never missed one. We go rain or shine. However, after that we stayed inside. We actually ordered Chinese. Yah, that's right on the fourth of July we had Chinese food. I know strange, but we felt like it, and the Chinese place sure wasn't busy!

A couple of good Cam quotes:

Wanting gold fish crackers he asked for: "Fish Golds"

On Jack's birthday we got this little music toy that kind of is like a DJ set. "It has Hoop there it is", and other songs. Well, it sort of sounds like poop. So Cam was singing poop there it is, then if you hit a button it says "hoop, hoop, hoop" to which Cam responded "that's a lot of poop". I was laughing too hard to even try to correct him.

Cam is certainly my most volitile child. The mood swinger, can throw tantrums ect. However, he is also the funniest. He makes me laugh every day.

I probably will not blog next week because we will be in SC for vacation. We can't wait. Well, except for the 11 hour drive...ugh. On the way back from the vacation we will be stopping at the FTIA picnic. We can't wait to see the people we traveled with to get Jack!

Turnin' 2 & Joining the Church

2009-06-29T14:03:00.000-07:00

Ethan doing his own thing on the alter

Jack being thrown by grandma.

All the kids playing with the very cool bubble train given by Nonna.

Jack eating fruit

Jack wearing the number 2 shirt for his second birthday. By the way that was not done on purpose. Eric realized it after the fact and was like that was a cute idea. I was like yeah...I had no idea.

Sorry for the delay in blogging. Our internet was down then we made a trip to Youngstown to visit grandma and papa.

We've had a busy two weeks.

1. Jack had tubes put in his ears...Yay! He's doing wonderful. Except now he has 4 teeth coming in. By the time that's over he'll be ready for cleft surgery.

2. After tubes Jack learned how to say grandma (andma), come here, slide (ide), flower (ower), okay so you have to understand Jack, but he's getting the idea.

3. Highlights from grandma's:

children's museum
Wagon Trails: Very cool tractor ride with lots of animals that you can feed. Jack was a bit concerned about all the animals being so close especially the water buffelo.
Dinner out
Riding papa's tractor
Playing with the lionel trains: Jack loved being the tunnel. Everytime the train went through he said "ooo" His wow.
Playing in the pond
Watching the thunderstorm on the porch, with flashlights.

Thanks mom and dad for a great week. The kids had a ball!

4. Jack's 2nd birthday:

We had a birthday party in the backyard. Full of grilled foods, family, friends and fun. Jack loved the ice cream cake. He had no idea what was going on, but after opening one or two gifts he got the idea. He kept saying OOO. Later in the evening the kids watched a movie we projected up on the garage. We let them stay up late. Mine had a ball catching lightening bugs. Ethan called them butterflies and Cam called them bees. Our little neighbor kept explaining that they were lightening bugs. At one point she stood on a chair and said those are not bees, butterflies, beetles, or flies...They are lightening bugs. To which Cam said Yah...I'm catching bees. Fun was had by all.

5. Jack's Baptism: On Sunday Jack was baptised into our church. He did very well and didn't cry even when he got water poured on his head. In fact he wanted to play in it. I brought Ethan up with us. He's usually very quiet and shy. He was dancing on the alter. Then when they lit the candle he said "yah" nice and loud. Cam from the front pew said, "I want the candle"...Sigh. Thank God our priest likes children.

Summer Fun!

2009-06-14T19:21:00.000-07:00

Really was this the same kid that screamed his head off for baths? Now I can't get him out.

Ethan soaked and in Heaven from a hose fight.

Jack having some water table fun

HOSE FIGHT! What's summer without these?

That is one big worm.

This week was a fun filled week. Have I ever mentioned how much I love summer! Here's a short list of our week activities:

1. Played in the water tables full of bubbles.

2. Went on a worm hunt.

3. Got in a hose fight with the neighbors

4. Jack's first tumbling class (he was a pro...of course)

5. Baked Banana bread.

6. Drank Kool -Aid

7. Got Ice Cream (pink, yellow, and fattening) those were our requests. I dared Eric to order them that way. We ended up with strawberry, butterscotch, and peanut butter.

8. Family Night at our pool. Jack loves the water...my other two not so much. At least they like tether-ball.

9. A visit from my out of town cousin and family.

10. Cleaning the fish tank (this was quite an activity with 3 little helpers). They really, really loved netting the fish. It was a bit of a challenge to get them to put them back into the water!

No sleep for us!

2009-06-07T19:17:00.000-07:00

Jack's first Red's game!

Ethan getting buff. (notice his shirt says" I get my muscles from my daddy) By the way we are getting rid of this weight set. Know anybody that wants it?

Ethan and Cam helping daddy fix his baby.

Ethan and Jack "helping wash the car" Notice they are wet and no where near the car!

We had a fun filled week filled with everything, but sleep. Jack's ears are bugging him so much that when the Motrin exceeds its 6 hours he is up. He's up for a while. Poor Eric had a rough week of Jack being up, then having to get up for work. I at least could sleep in a bit. On Saturday we woke him at 8:30, only let him nap an hour and a half, then didn't put hime to bed until 10:30 (yes we were that desperate!). He finally slept through the night, but guess what? Cam got up! Cam never wakes up. Let's just say there were some four letter words that came out that night! God sure has a sense of humor! Anyway, we see the ENT tomorrow. Let's hope he can help us out.

Exciting things:

1. We had our pictures taken. Ethan was less than cooperative. Okay, that's an understatement. I kind of wanted to strangle him. Luckily we had company. I did have a nice stiff drink after. Amazingly we did get some great pictures. I will post them when I can.

2. We went to the Farmer's Market. Again Ethan was not cooperative, but I did get some good vegetables.

3. Found out Ethan probably had a virus when he broke out in a viral rash. Ahh, explanation for uncoopertiveness (is this a word?)

4. Went to dinner and actually had a really good time. Yes, that's right we made it out with 3 kids under 4! I think it's slightly amazing!

5. Three boys "helped" daddy with the car wash.

6. We went to the Red's Game as a family...Well, we made it through 6 innings. Not too bad. It only took a couple snow cones and a bag of popcorn.

7. The boys helped me make my zucchini bread, and we ate out with the neighbors. Always a great time.

Summer Fun!

2009-05-31T18:25:00.000-07:00

Jack sporting his Lower Teakwood shirt! Look at that muscle man!

Ethan's smiley face!

Ethan writing his name. You can see the Ethaaaaaaaan (he couldn't get that "a" perfect!) He got it on the next one though!

No major news this week. Just a few pictures with captions of us enjoying our summer!

Memorial Day and more!

2009-05-25T17:45:00.000-07:00

This week was crazy...Hence the late and short update.

1. Ethan and I are done with school for the year!

2. Jack is doing awesome. Getting more mobile and energetic everyday.

3. All 3 children have ear infections. Yah.. a trifecta.

4. Ethan is finally riding a bike...It's a small miracle.

5. Nonna's for Memorial Day was lots of fun!

Happy Birthday Ethan

2009-05-17T19:12:00.000-07:00

Cam: scared to death of the inflatables at Ethan's party

Jack, not scared at all!

Ethan...loving it!

Ethan's Special Day at School

This week, my little Ethan turned 4! I don't believe it. He's growing up so fast. Since it was his birthday week he had a special day at school. He got a crown, which he wore for 13 seconds, but I did get a picture. He also got to be the line leader. We brought in cupcakes for a treat. It was fish day, so I thought we'd do blue icing with sweedish fish. He explained that the icing should be brown because the water in the river (Ohio) is muddy. We compromised and made both. On Thursday (his actual birthday) we went to Chuckie Cheese (compliments of a nice gift card given to us) for the first time. Ethan loved it. He absolutely loved getting tickets that he could exchange for prizes. Cam loved throwing the balls for skeet ball. The problem was getting him not to wing it over hand! Jack jsut kind of roamed around, but he did really like the fruit punch! On Friday, we had a small birthday party for Ethan at Bananas, which is one of those places with all the inflatables. We only invited family and our neighbors, but we all had a ball. Well, except Cam who was scared to death of all of it. He just clung to grandma and mommy the whole time. He sure perked up for cake though!

I just wanted to take a few lines just to explain what a great kid Ethan is. He can be very quiet and reserved, but he has such a wonderful heart. When we brought Jack home many people felt that Ethan would be jealous or upset. He was soooo excited, and still is. He is the best big brother. He loves Cam and Jack more than anything. He goes around announcing these are my brothers. He is so proud of them. The other day all three of the boys were bouncing in the crib and my mom saw Cam pull down a little decoration and it broke. When my mom asked who did it Ethan said, "I did. I'm sorry grandma". What 4 year old does that? I know it's a mom brag, but he deserves it. He also picks up even when Cam and Jack won't. He tells me if Jack is standing on a chair, so that he won't get hurt. He is a really great kid.

Doctor's appointments, haircuts, and more

2009-05-10T19:16:00.000-07:00

Ethan at his first field trip to Parky's farm.

Ethan and Cam totally engrossed in Scooby Doo (oh the classics). Jack doesn't know what he's missing.

This is Eric's mom's house. Notice the huge tree. This was an Arbor Day twig that Eric planted as a child. Mental note..don not plant trees next to the house. No matter how small they seem.

Have you ever tried to get three little boys in one picture?..don't. I have about 12 more shots just like these. Oh well, we tried.

Jack is an official U.S. Citizen!

This week was crazy. I went back to my normal work schedule, we had two doctor's appointments, a field trip, haircuts, tumbling, and lord knows what else!

Jack went to his IA checkup. He has gained almost two pounds, about an inch, and his head has grown. All his blood tests came back normal. He does need a few vaccine boosters. Everyone was pleased. We also met with the surgical team. We have decided that Jack will have his surgery on July 30th. He will have his palate closed, a lip touch up, and ear tubes put in. It's a lot at once, but we figured we minds well get it done in one shot. He shouldn't need any other surgeries until a bit later.

Jack also got his first haircut. We took all 3 boys, with the help of grandma to get their hair clipped! Let me tell you we won't be doing that without 3 adults anytime soon! We had them keep Jack's a bit longer because of his lumpy, bumpy head. Let's just say there are no crew cuts in our near future. All the boys look adorable (not that I'm partial).

Jack is an official US Citizen. We applied in O' hara airport and we just got his certificate.

Today, Mother's Day my hausband (the saint) took the 3 boys to visit nonna. So I could relax. However, I'm not good at that so I cleaned the house, mowed the grass, sorted clothes, grocery shopped, and baked cupcakes. However, it was oh so peaceful.

Happy Mother's Day!

More Updates

2009-05-03T19:29:00.000-07:00

Yes, this is Jack in our kitchen drawer, that he emptied. I was wondering why he got so quiet.

Cam eating his pink ice cream!

This is Ethan's self selected outfit. dress shirt, sweat shorts, dress socks and crocs. What a fashion statement!

This is Ethan, so excited because he dressed himself...His first attempt he had everything backwards. Underwear, pants and top. I think he looked st the tags to put them on...not sure!

This weeks excitement:

It was pretty quiet on the home front. It was a very rainy week and I think we were all getting cabin feaver. Toys and kitchen utensils were used in various ways. We also continued with experimental toilet play (thanks to Jack). I'm not sure if he's doing sink float experiments, or just finding out how many things he can make mommy fish out of the toilet. Jack spent his first half day in daycare and did great. When I left Cam was the one crying...go figure. Jack learned the word nana ( for banana) and Nonna. I guess it helps that they sound alike. Jack had to visit the doctor for yet another ear infection, proof that he is indeed a Caton. We did find out that he has gained over a pound (yay!)

This weekend Eric had the boys a lot because I was helping out with UC cheer tryouts. When I got home from a completely child free day they were all still alive. Eric wasn't too frazzled, so that was good. We call these daddy days, or mommy appreciation days. This is were the daddy validates all the challenging parts of the day. It's always so nice to know that your not the only one that can't get anything done. I highly reccomend mommy appreciation days they're good for all involved...especially the mommy!

Favorite Quotes:

I asked the kids what kind of ice cream they wanted:

Ethan said, "baniella" (I guess we need to work on the V sound)

Cam said, "pink" (hmmm? what flavor is that?)

While in the car with the Ice Cream Cam said "It's dripping down my back" (hmm, How does that happen?) I guess I'll be cleaning the car seats.

Sunday Updates

2009-04-26T19:15:00.000-07:00

Oh, no my pants fell of again. Notice Cam in the background with Ethan's shoes on the wrong feet trying to go outside in his pj's! Ah life at our house!

The very rare all three boys in a shot together, and wearing matching jamies. They look like they are doing water painting, but really they are conspiring on how to spill the hundreth cup of water. Jack and Cam are head butting, a sign of affection?...or Cam wanting to knock Jack out hum?

Jack drinking out of a shot glass..don't worry it's just water!

At the UC game...tongue out as usual

Jack just being Jack..saying ah after drinking.

So I've decided to force myself to keep up with the blog by doing Sunday updates. I might update more, but I will at least add something every Sunday. What can I say I'm a schedule person!

This was a great weekend. The weather could not have been better! We had the very rare warm with no humidity. That never happens here. We spent Friday night outside with some close friends. The kids played, fought, tried to kill themselves. Meanwhile we had lasagna and drinks. Saturday was another outside day. Then in the evening we went to the Bearcat's Spring football game. It was a lot of fun, but I really didn't watch any of the game. Eric said they looked pretty good. I never could get into the game where the team is playing themselves. Well, at least I know the Bearcats won! For those of you that don't know Eric and I met when we cheered at UC in college. Our poor children are forced to be Bearcat fans and to attend lots of UC functions. We thought perhaps Jack would like the Bearcat since it resides in Southeast Asia. However, we were wrong, he was well petrified of it! He was also scared of the announcers and all the loud sounds. All three boys loved watching the cheerleaders and the band. On Sunday my wonderful husband took all three boys to the park for 2 totally blissful hours. It was so nice to be able to get the house cleaned without three little helpers! That's the break down of the weekend!

Questions of the week:

1. What do you wash lime green clothes with? Lights? Darks? Reds? There's only two I'd rather not do them seperate.

2. Why do children always poop right after you change them?

3. Where do missing toys go? Our house is not that big and there's not much furniture.

4. Why do I always forget at least two items at the grocery store?

Top 10 favorite parts of the weekend:

1. The weather..so beautiful

2. Spending time with neighbors

3. Getting our shed cleaned out

4. Jack giving papa a hug..so cute

5. Jack bending his knees while walking...we have progressed from Frankenstien to drunkin sailor!

6. Cam saying I love you.

7. Ethan yelling those are my brothers.

8. All 3 children sleeping past 8:00 on Sunday

9. Pizza dinner Sunday

10. My husband taking all three kids for two hours (oh so nice!)

A day in the life

2009-04-21T18:59:00.000-07:00

7:00: Drag self out of bed, throw on clothes not caring if they match or are weather appropriate.
7:05: Drag self to kitchen, unload dishwasher, make coffee which is very important.
7:15: Make sippy cups and breakfast for boys
7:30 Hear middle child awake...ignore it because still more to do
7:35: Feed dogs and cat. Switch hundreth load of laundry
7:45: Middle child becoming loud and impatient...go get him.
7:50: Snuggle with Cam while he drinks milk...Yah, favorite part of day.
7:55: Go get oldest child, so he won't be late for school. Drag his little rear downstairs.
8:05: Entice children to eat anything remotely nutritious.
8:15: Dress Cam and Ethan very unwillingly.
8:20: Wake Jack up, so that he might take a nap and sleep at night.
8:25: Feed Jack anything (so refreshing!)
8:35: Dress Jack (he helps, so nice!)
8:45: Give out vitamins, throw coats on, plead with oldest to use the potty, run around like a maniac, ect.ect.
8:47: Load 3 children into van (ha, ha). It's quite a sight to see!
8: 50: Leave for Ethan's school
8:53: Arrive at school (it's less than a mile away), unload all three children, get out double stroller so Jack can use it. Cam and Ethan hop in. I sigh. Hold Jack, push Ethan and Cam in double wide stroller. Wonder how in the ****I will make it through doors. Lovely lady helps us out.
9:00: Drop Ethan off at school
9:02: Drop Jack and Cam in childcare for 30 minutes, so I can make some copies, and give Jack a trial run.
9:30: Take Jack and Cam home.
9:32: Relax (ha ha) or run laundry and fix snacks.
10:40: Mother in Law comes to watch Jack.
11:00: Bring Cam to Ethan's class for little sib's day
11:30: Take Ethan and Cam to another room to eat lunch. Beg children to eat anything, don't even care if it's healthy.
12:15: Put Ethan and Cam in childcare and go teach. Wonder where anything in my room is. After being gone four weeks I cannot find anything. Have a successful day back.
3:00: Pick Ethan and Cam up and go home. Try to load into car while being rather unruley and jumping in every puddle. Sure don't use the stroller now. Realize they both need changed when we get home.
3:15: Back home with all 3 boys. Boys take turns crying because they're tired. Feed them snack which perks them up. Change them which aggravates them. Continue running laundry.
4:45: Daddy is home! Load 3 boys into car. Leave for tumbling class.
6:00: Leave tumbling, stopping at McDonalds for our Tuesday treat! Cam ate a few fries, Ethan had 2 chicken nuggets and a few fries, Jack had 4 chicken nuggets and fries. Marvel at Jack's eating...again.
7:00: Home, baths, and play.
8:30: Books and bed for Ethan and Cam
9:00: Jack goes down to run off steam in the playroom, so we don't have to be up at 1:00am. This is our OT/PT time for Jack...I guess!
10:00: Jack in bed.
10:00: Try to clean up house, get stuff ready for work, wonder why floors are sticky, but don't really care, wonder how we stll have another basket of laundry, feed poor dogs, run dishwasher, and smile because I'm so darn happy.
10:30: Think about my favorite parts of the day: Jack falling and saying ow! New word. Cam giving Jack a big hug, daddy coming home! And my favorite when I stated Jack ate all his nuggets, and Jack was signing more Ethan handed him his and said he can have mine. When I told Ethan he could keep it he said no Jack can have it. It was so sweet, no hidden motives. He is so sweet with his brothers. Love my family. They are awesome!
10:35: update blog
11:00: climb into bed exausted, thank God for my many blessings, and wonder what tomorrow will bring.

Easter, updates, and more

2009-04-17T19:57:00.000-07:00

So if you haven't been able to tell by our lack of posts things have been a little crazy around here. I just can't seem to understannd how one (very little) being can double laundry, diaper changing, and trash. All the while reducing seep by at least half. It's really quite amazing! So I'm going to do all our updates in one blog! Here it goes:

1. Easter: Easter went pretty well. The bunny came. The kids ate too much chocolate. By the way Jack loves chocolate! We went to church. It was a minor disaster in which two of my three children spent some time in the back of the church. I think we were at least entertainment for those seated around us. Um, I think I'll skip the next 90 minute mass, however! Nona and Aunt Karen, Uncle Ian, and cousin Rob came to visit. Jack really loved Rob! The kids had a good time. We were worn out!

2. Jack's progress: Good

Okay just kidding, I'll add to that. He really is doing so much better. He's still tiny. We're hoping that will change. However, he's eating great, sleeping okay, pooping normal, and picking with his brothers. His eating continues to amaze me! He can eat anything. He even ate corn on the cob. Really, I couldn't believe it. He picked it up and started munching away like it was nothing!

He has learned to say mama, up, uh oh, bye, and yah. He is signing more, all done, hungry, milk, and a few others. He waves and blows kisses. He really is a joy.

Today he really loved outside for the first time. He actually left my arms and played! I was so excited. He even played with our neighbor's little girl. It was really cute. He's also a complete wild man. He loves to hop on the little riding car and fly down the hill. He also loves to be on the swing and go as high as possible. He giggles loudly with each swing. He also learned how to blow bubbles. My other two children are terrible at that, but Jack is really good at it. I mean our cleft kid can totally blow bubbles better than his older brothers. It's a little emberassing really!

3. Milestones:

We went to church as a family. Not all that successful, but it should get better...right?

We went to dinner as a family of five. That actually did go well. We didn't chase anyone away or anything.

I took all three boys grocery shopping with just me. That actually was a big hit. We got one of those carts where all three children fit and they could face each other. They thought that was way cool. I felt like I should get an award for getting through the store with no issues and three children under 4. As usual nobody got me a trophy!

Cam will now admit that Jack is his brother. Sometimes he'll even willingly kiss him.

Jack loves the car seat.

I think that is all for now! Enjoy the pictures!

Blood results

2009-04-17T19:53:00.000-07:00

We got our blood results back today. Well, at least the ones that they were able to run. Jack wasn't all that into getting pricked, so we'll be visiting the lab again. His blood work all looked pretty good. There was no parasites (yay!), no lead poisoning, iron looked good, blood counts all normal. His thyroid was a little off, so we'll be retesting that. Due to his small size I would not be surprised if we need to do some hormone replacements. Hopefully, that will be the biggest issue. Other than that all looks well so far. Hopefully, the rest of the tests will go well!

Doctor's Visit and the poop experiment

2009-04-08T16:11:00.000-07:00

Today we visited Cincinnati Children's IA team for a post adoption check. We met with a nurse, OT, Dr. Stat, ect. Basically everything was as we expected. He's way under weight, very small, and a little behind. As we knew this was all expected. He did have an ear infection so we will start some antiobiotics for that. I do believe he stole everyone's hearts. He is such a charmer.

While at the appointment we did get to see Debbie and John and Julianne, whom we traveled with. It was great seeing you all. I hope your appointment went well.

After the appointment we had to get a stool sample from Jack. The boys thought this was all too interesting! Cam and Ethan totally watched the whole thing. It was like we were doing some sort of great science experiment. Cam wanted to know if we could sample his poop too. I told him one poop sample would be plenty for mommy and daddy. Ahh, life with three boys.

Tired in Cincinnati

2009-04-06T18:32:00.000-07:00

After over 30 hours of traveling with an infant I can safely say I won't be taking any long trips soon. We are so happy to be home where there is safe running water, a full kitchen, and soft beds. Unfortunately we haven't got much chance to use the bed. Jack is still on China time. He's getting better. The first night he slept about 5 hours, the second we got 6, and last night he slept over 7. Maybe tonight we can make it to 6:00 am. Who ever thought that would be a goal! Over all things are going well. Ethan and Cam are doing well in their big brother roles. Ethan is so excited we have to remind him not to get to crazy around Jack. Cam is still adjusting, but doing much better than I thought. He hasn't tried to sit on, squish, push, or drown Jack. I think that's pretty good. Jack has been like a baby cling on. I'm glad that Cam trained me well in doing everything with one hand. I'm hoping Jack will branch out soon, and begin to play a bit, so I can have a little break. He's a cute hip ornament, but it would be nice if I could take it off every once in a while. Today was my first day with all three boys by myself. It wasn't too bad. The morning was a bit rough with all three boys "needing mommy", but I think they quickly figured out that mommy was not an octopus. All three boys napped at the same time (alleluia!) Then the evening went pretty well. We even managed to get Ethan to church school. Whoever invented all the car seat laws obviously has never had to strap three children into the 5 point harness. That's 15 points you know!

I actually feel like adjusting from 1 to 2 children was harder. Maybe because one was a new born and the other 18 months old. At least this time I'm only worried about Jack on the steps!

For all those wondering Jack is still intaking an unreal amount of food. For lunch today he had a single serving of Mac-n-cheese, 3 pieces of hot dog, a bowl of bananas with rice cereal, and three cookies! He's a cutey. We can't wait for him to be on USA time! I will post some pictures later. Somehow I can't figure out where I put my camera. It's probably lost in a pile of laundry!

Wrapping Up

2009-03-31T06:19:00.000-07:00

Well, we only have one more day before we leave. I have to say I have very mixed emotions. I'm so ready to be home, and I miss everyone so much. At the same time I'm a little sad to take Jack away from everything he has known. I know he will be better off with us. He has already made so much progress. We think he has gained at least 2 pounds and his energy level is great. We cannot wait for everyone to meet him. He is indeed our son, the one God planned for us to have.

Many people from our group leave tomorrow. It was a very emotional evening as we said goodbye. It was amazing to share this experience with so many amazing people. Each one of us had our story of what brought us to adopt. It has been a journey full of ups and downs for all. I think we all believe that God has brought us here, and it was a calling we were to answer. I feel so blessed to have so many people here that just get it. This has been a truly unbelievable experience. I'm so grateful that we've been able to have this experience. We hope all will go well at home and we will be able to do this again. Who knows maybe next time it will be a girl...or maybe not. Only God knows. If nothing else through this experience I've learned to trust God's path for us.

Thanks you to everyone who has been so supportive on this endeavor. Thank you mom and dad and Rita for watching our boys. Thanks to all friends and family who have helped out in so many ways. We really can't wait to see everyone. We're coming home soon!

More Buddhist Temples

2009-03-30T06:54:00.000-07:00

This morning we went to yet another Buddhist temple. They are all beautiful, but they're all starting to look alike. We did get to put money in a special "wishing well", then Eric burned three incense sticks for past, present, and future. We were also able to have the babies blessed in the Buddhist temple. It is believed that most of the abandoned babies are born in the countryside and most of the rural people are Buddhist. It was an interesting experience. After the temple we went to a museum where they showed us how people in China lived 100 years ago. They showed how they slept on porcelain pillows, perhaps now we are sleeping on porcelain mattresses. It sure feels like it. We also had Jack's name done on a wall scroll.

After nap time we did some shopping. It was a lot of fun, but the sales people are bit much. They follow you around and bug the heck out of you. We did find some fun stuff though!

Then came the most wild experience of all! We ordered Papa John's Pizza. We had our coordinator order for us. Since it was taking along time we called. They explained that the delivery bike was out, and so they were waiting for a bus to deliver it! Where they got a bus we're not sure. Eventually our pizza delivery bus came. A group of us sat in the hall and ate it. It was very good, but everything was mini. The pizza, the breadsticks, and the sauce. They sent one teeny tiny container of sauce for four orders of breadsticks. All in all it was a great time. The kids had a ball playing together. Hannah (one of the 10 year olds) was so cute with Jack. He just loves her. One of the other little boys had a birthday, and Jack loves cake! it was nice to just hang out and relax

Progress Continues

2009-03-29T06:08:00.000-07:00

Last night we had a major break through with Jack. He took a bath and actually enjoyed it. The first two baths were majorly traumatic. Last night we put him in, and he started to scream, but then he started to splash and play! Yah!!! We have had some better sleep experiences too. The first night that I tried to let him put himself to sleep (I was told he did this), he showed some disturbing behavior. He thrashed and hit himself in the head. I cried watching. I picked him up and walked him asleep. Last night he took me to the door and reached up. He knew I'd walk him to sleep, it was so sweet. Then at nap today I laid him down on the bed and stroked his head and he went to sleep. He now finds the food he wants brings it to us and says "um". We know what that means! He continues to eat well.

Today we went to a Jade market and a pearl factory (isn't that an oyster?). We had a good time at both. The pearl factory was on a seven floor mall, with almost all the floors being jewelry. It was like an enormous Claire's Boutique. Later in the day we went to a German resteraunt. It was actually quite good. It was strange to see German translated into Chinese. Did you know that ice tea is spelled eistee? Sometimes things get a bit lost in translation! We are having a good time, but we can't wait to get home and see everyone. We can't wait to have the boys all together!

We're in Guangzhou City!

2009-03-27T22:01:00.000-07:00

Last night we flew from Nanning to Guangzhou. It was about an hour long flight, and Jack was as happy as a clam (how do we know clams are happy?) He ate the whole time! He had crackers, cookies, rice bars ect. ect. We were told he had no appetite???? Perhaps we got the wrong child. He is already a different kid. He is fun and playful. He wants to walk now and is getting better at it. He's also infatuated with stairs. He likes to go up and down them. He needs some help, but boy he's doing better.

We are now at the White Swan Hotel. It is so beautiful. They have a great playroom for the kids and the breakfast was amazing. Guangzhou is a very big city with lots of shopping (we can't wait!!!) We are very happy to be here!

This morning we took Jack for the "medical exam" (notice everything relating to medicine here is in quotes). They looked him over, looked in his ears (again we were told he has wax!), they weighed and measured him, and handed us some papers. We did find out he has gained around a pound. We are up to 18 lbs and we think about 29 inches? We had to convert everything, so not sure how accurate the inches are.

We also compleed all the rest of our paperwork and payed the rest of our fees. Yah!! Glad to have all that done.

PS - Nona/Mom, we added comments for you both on the last (BaCall's) post.

Great American Worm Hunt & Dinner at Bacall's

2009-03-26T19:03:00.000-07:00

Hello to Shannon, Eric & Jack from North America! We await your return, in the meantime you should know you missed a big dating event, Ethan, Caroline, and Cameron dined on local cusine:

Tonight Ethan & Cameron captured never before seen species of earth worms, crickets and slugs during an exclusive back yard "dig". No endangered species were intentionally harmed during this production. Unintentionally, "not so sure".

Photos at 11:00, somewhere in the world:

Love,

Nancy, Barry, Ethan & Cameron

Technical Question from the Kitchen

2009-03-26T13:06:00.000-07:00

Shannon, What do you put in the pancakes for the boys?

A better day

2009-03-26T05:34:00.000-07:00

Today was a lot better. Jack slept all night and woke up a bit better. No more fever and he had his appetite back. He ate three bowls of rice and bananas. Then he had 3 rice/wheat squares. We took a walk down the street, but it was rainy and Jack did not like that. We stopped at a bakery and the food was great. Then we spent more time in the hotel. I'm so sick of the hotel right now!! Jack fell asleep around 12:00 and slept until 1:15. He then at two cereal bars and seven small cookies, oh and a bag of baked Cheetos. He LOVED the Cheetos, poor daddy lost his snack!!! Then Jack actually got up and played. He walked and picked things up, and actually had some fun! We had a great time with him. He's giving us kisses and head butts (a sign of affection). He also responds with a smile and a hug when we say wha ay nee (I love you). His receptive language is good. He is also saying "ma ma", "no" (he is almost 2), "up", and "more". We found out he loves being with other kids, and shows interest in playing with them. He loves slides and little rocking toys. He's a bit of a dare devil. It was really great to see some of his personality today!

After playing we went to dinner. Jack had a bowl of rice soup and a few noodles, and a yogurt type drink. He certainly seems to be enjoying eating! We are glad because he really needs it.

We have been able to get some past info on Jack. The orphanage directer gave us some pictures of him. In one he still has the umbilical cord attached. His birth date should be pretty accurate. Through a group called Hope and Grace we also got a DVD with info about Jack. We even got a report from the foster mom. Lastly we had sent a care package for Jack and in it were two cameras. We got those back and were able to develop the pictures. It's really nice that we'll be able to share all this with Jack when he is older.

Thanks to all of you that have been praying for us. We really can't wait to be home. We're enjoying our time here, but we miss home and our little boys!

Thanks

2009-03-25T16:54:00.000-07:00

Just wanted to say thanks to everyone posting. We really appreciate the support! We also posted our blog on face book. Thanks to everyone responding there too! It's been a trying couple of days, but I'm sure it will get better. Thank you Jessica and Aida for your kind words. I hope school is going well for you. Tell the rest of the class that I said hi! We miss everyone!

Plugging along

2009-03-25T05:05:00.000-07:00

We have had our hands a little full this past day and a half. After our incredible first day with Jack our second started out great. He had slept completely through the night, and seemed ready for breakfast. He ate a little less, and started to become more fussy. We were really busy, however, because day 2 was when we went through all our paperwork, interviews, giving/receiving ceremony, and made our orphanage donation. I thought it was a lot of money in dollars - in Yuan we didn't have an envelope big enough to hold it all! After that we went to Wal-Mart and picked up some odds and ends. By the end of the day jack was boiling, and cranky, and pulling on his ears - we've seen enough to know what this is. Throw in some teething and gas and we have had a little emotional rollercoaster stuck to mommy's hip. Fortunately we have some antibiotics and Motrin that we started today (day 3). It's helping, and you can see that he really wants to be happy, but its hard. Our guide arranged for a doctor to come see him (we chose not to go to a "hospital") who promptly told us he had wax (poo-poos) in his ear. Gee Thanks! The conspiracy theorist in us thinks they gave all the kids something to get them through the first day, because it seems a lot of children in our hotel have all come up with fevers etc. that weren't there on gotcha day. hmmmm....
Anyway, his sleep is at least OK, and he still eats, so we'll be fine. We have gotten to see a lot of parks, Buddhist temple etc. and Nanning is very beautiful with wonderful citizens. However, we've been praying - and ask anyone else to as well - for Chris and Kelly in our group. Their beautiful girl is mourning the loss of her foster parents, who obviously loved her very much, so she is slow to attach to them. We've all been taught that it is a very good thing as it relates to future attachment issues, but it is just brutal on them in the here and now.
...gotta go diarrhea just hit!

Our first night

2009-03-23T16:18:00.000-07:00

Jack is awesome! He is very funny and has lots of personality. Last night he ate and ate and ate. He had a half of can of puffs, a bowl of oatmeal, two cereal bars, a bowl of rice congee, some formula, and flavored water. He is very, very, very small right now, but I don't think it will last. The 12-18 month clothes we brought are hanging on him, but the length is about right. I see lots of one piece outfits and overalls in his future! His little feet are so tiny. The 6-12 month socks are too big! Of course Eric couldn't find shoes that would fit him here either. Apparently Chinese men have very small feet. The biggest size we found was an 8!

He loves to clap toys together to make noise, imitate us, throw things (he has a good throw!), and walk. He really loves to hold our hands and walk everywhere. He can walk by himself. It still looks a little uncoordinated, but I think it's because he is walking on two tooth picks. He loved the mirrors at the hotel. He sat and made funny faces for a long time. He hates elevators and cries every time we get on. He is very good at communicating with gestures, and he also has already learned the word "more". What can I say he loves food and wants more!!! He seems very alert and watches everything we do. As we expected he seems a little behind in all areas, but I'm sure it won't last long!

Last night we weren't sure how to put him to bed, so he showed us. He hopped in my lap and rocked side to side. I guess his nanny rocked him to sleep. Heather, it looks like I might need that chair after all! He then flipped on his belly and fell asleep on me. I let him sleep on me for about an hour, then put him in his crib. He slept all night hand clutched on his blankie. We can't wait to see more of him today!

Here is a sleeping pic, but I will add some pictures a little later.

He couldn't be more perfect!!

2009-03-23T02:29:00.000-07:00

Sorry everyone, but you have to sift through daddy's writing styles. It seems we have yet another mommy's boy!!. He was (obviously)a little apprehensive at first, but has been great. OK, I know it's only been about 90 min with him so far, but he is just incredible! Hallelujah, the boy loves to eat, and boy does he need it. We need McDonald's STAT! He started to get a little cranky during paperwork, but we popped open some puffs, and he hasn't stopped eating them since. Shan will have a proper post later, but I had to get something up right away, and he won't let go of her!

Thanks and Love to all